There has been multiple times when I waited, waited for a reply, waited for the train to come by, waited for the rain to stop, but really…just for somebody to save me. I recently read a book called “How to get Sh*t done” by Erin Falconer, there was one section of the book where she had mentioned something that made so much sense to me, and that was: Not to depend on just one thing to make you happy, successful, or productive. Depending on one person, one goal, or one thing might be why you are still waiting, waiting for someone, something, or anything to come save you when you can just save yourself…because if all fails, that one thing you have been focusing on all your life doesn’t have your back anymore…what are you going to do? Where are you going to be?? The very least you can do for yourself, is to start building your own life and to have your own back.
Erin mentioned 3 major aspects you should focus on in your life to feel more productive, successful, and happier. The 3 major aspects in the book were career growth, personal growth, and relationship growth. I absolutely agreed with her because focusing on just one thing can fail, and you would start feeling unhappy with yourself. Hence, you have to start focusing in on other things that is important to you. Focusing on multiple goals to improve your life will keep you away from waiting, feeling more productive because you have other major things to do, and to build what’s important to you in your life.
In the end, we are all still trying to figure out life, who we are, our gifts, our talents, and our own specialties. Never let this world take advantage of you just because having a career is what everyone is focusing on, focus on building YOU, by focusing on yourself and building on who you truly came here to be, that is pure happiness and giving yourself love. Do you enjoy dancing? Make time for it! Do you want to learn a new skill? Make time for it! When you were younger, did you love singing?? Make time for it! Life is short, and we don’t have much time here on Earth, we didn’t just come here to work or to slave ourselves with just one goal, have multiple goals! Enjoy life ❤ In order to be truly happy with our lives, you have to begin with your life, make it unique, make it YOU, make it beautiful.
Empower Love ❤